Fake friends


Hello everyone, I hope that you all are having a good day/night, depending on when you are reading this…

I know that we all have a “friend” that acts as if they are your best friend but in reality they are not. You know the kind that is always by your side acting as if they are cheering you on, but they are really praying on your down fall. 

Yea that’s the type that we all need to stay far..far.. away from. 

When I was in middle school I had one of those friends. She would alway have something negative to say about anything and everything that I was doing. But at the same time she would make me feel as if she was a true friend, even though she would talk bad about me behind my back. Yea, I know it can be confusing because I sure was confused too. 


Now as an adult, I have came across people that do the same thing. But since I know better, I do better. I refuse to have those kinds of people around me. I have also realized that sometimes you can generally like this type person but deep down inside you know that you should stay away from them. I mean is it possible that there can be bad qualities to a good person? Or that they really don’t realize that they are hurting you? 

Well, we don’t need that type of negativity in our lives so beware of the fake friends. Comment below and let me know if you ever experienced a “friend” being fake.  


Until next time…stay positive! 

-Toya 

15 thoughts on “Fake friends

  1. E’ giusto questo tuo comportamento, e tutte quelle manifestazioni che rendono partecipi la vita armoniosa si trasformano, anche se la malignità è ovunque, in ogni parte dell’esistenze e dell’universo. Nel lavoro, nello studio e nello svago! Non si sà mai che ti capita, meglio allontanarsi in ogni modo. Lieto di conoscerti Latoya, se vuoi dare un’occhiata al mio forum: http://www.love24com.it Vedi la pagina- Notozie varie. Grazie, saluti dall’Italia

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    1. I worry about that too! Those kinds of people can be so hurtful at times. Definitely don’t want my child to have to encounter anyone like that, but it’s life, so I’m sure he will.

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  2. That last quote was legit girl!!! Fake friends are worse than enemies….because they are enemies in disguise. It’s pretty easy to avoid drama from people you already know are bad and have beef with you…but those sneaky little phonies man they are like leeches and they can make your life way more stressful than it ever needs to be. PLUS they know all your secrets and the use it against you….ugghh I’m dealing with one of these exfriends right now lol

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    1. Yess! That’s what I’m saying. It’s like they do so much sneaky stuff behind your back that by the time you realize what’s really going on the damage is already done. Lol. Smh. I hope that that situation with your “friend” gets better for you.

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  3. I agree with you but I also know that people are imperfect. Sometimes we are in friendships because we are the better friend and those people need us. All that being said any such situation that causes damage to you should be ended. You get to decide how much you will take and don’t sacrifice yourself at the altar of friendship. I have let people quite a few people go myself. Sometimes you have got to cut your losses. Life is too short.

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  4. I know exactly what you mean, I’m going through a situation now with a girl who acts as a friend but tries to compete with me. Sometimes I would rather just not have these people in my life, but maybe they’re their for a reason? What if they have something to show you about yourself, that sometimes you forget; like a spark. I don’t know, just trying to be positive lol. Love the post!

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    1. There’s nothing wrong with being positive about these situations. Honestly I believe it’s the best way to handle them. But at the same time, why hold on to someone that is no good for you when you can be with the ones that really appreciate you.

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